Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Job Interview Update!

Thanks for the good vibes, crossed fingers, and prayers. I think that it helped because I felt calm and totally comfortable during my interview.

Okay, so first: right before I left the University from my morning teaching class, I had a brief meeting with my supervisor/co-teacher Jim.  He was really disappointed that I was going on a job interview, because I "have a job to teach here as long as there are students to teach!".  Which is awesome!!! I wasn't aware that they liked me this much or that I would be considered for other programs or teaching positions.  This is really great news.

I interviewed with a nontraditional school.  It is a University Model School and therefore would not be a 7-5 MTWRF position.  It would be more like teaching one or two classes per day, two or three classes per week.  Financially, it would be ridiculous for me to get child care for my son (at perhaps $15 morning) and then work for $22 an hour.  I would not be paid for out of class prep, including curriculum development and grading.


I know, gasp!!!  I talked about MONEY on the blog!  And its crazy low pay!


The benefits would be that I could talk about God in my class. I could practice being a Christian and not just a professional educator who never talks about personal convictions.  I could continue to be around kids (I miss middle school aged shenanigans!) and I would continue to boost my resume in hopes that I can resume a profitable teaching career in the future.  I would also have ideal parent and administrator support.  And an average class size of ELEVEN.

So, I haven't been offered the job, and there is a chance that I will not be offered the job because I was quite clear on my views of science as the study of the NATURAL world, not the supernatural realm like religion studies, and that I don't subscribe to a traditional evangelical young earth literal creation point of view.  I am more closely aligned with theistic evolution or this BioLogos philosophy 

I was totally exhausted after this 2.5 hour interview.  It was long because I asked nearly as many questions as the administrator!  I felt like I had a great learning experience and I might write a bit more about that.

I was so tired that I slept on the couch for 45 minutes during dinner.  I didn't help with bath time.  I didn't do the house chores.  My husband picked up the slack, just as he did during the last 7 months of my pregnancy.  It was great to have him do this!

I did have a chance to take these photos of my silly baby: (and I will include them because I know that half of my readers aren't really readers, they just skim until they find a cute baby photo to ogle!)












 

Cross Your Fingers, Say a Prayer, or Send Some Good Vibes...

Or do all three, whichever you think to do at 12:45 PM today.

I've got a job interview for a teaching position at a unique school for the fall.  It would be a super duper part time position, and I think it would be a good fit for me.  And my family.

If I don't get hired... well, I will be disappointed because I hate rejection, but I don't know if I will feel heart broken, because its kind of a random opportunity and I am not sure if it is something I would love.

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Is There a Polite Way To Invite Yourself...

To a friend's apartment swimming pool?


And what if said friend is actually a friend of a friend?

Is there anyway to finagle a pool visit that doesn't seem too moochy? Or obvious? Or "I'll be your friend if we can go swimming on Tuesdays at 1?"

I can't think of a good way, so I am open for suggestions.

Working Again!

Yesterday was my first day of teaching for a new cohort of English and Professional Immersion program students.  There are seven (only seven!) pupils in my class, and they range in age from 20 to 27.  All are undergraduate students who are very bright and excited to be in my class.  Isn't that what every teacher wants - an eager learner?

Here is a program advertisement for the course I teach.



My goals for the course:
   - Foster confidence when speaking in a non-native language
   - Support practical English language learning through authentic speaking experiences
   - Serve as a friendly ambassador to the American way of life, hopefully encouraging my students to adopt some of our culture's best aspects, including desire for autonomy from government, self-actualization in career choice, importance of balancing relaxation with work ethic, and hospitality

I will teach on campus, and my classrooms are usually in Memorial Union, which is a beautiful and very comfortable building.
photo from wikipedia


 (I spent so much time studying for my less rote- memorization required tests here as an undergraduate and met friends for Starbucks between classes and had great discussions with colleagues in graduate school.  Our friends Ben and Kathleen had their wedding reception upstairs in a ballroom, and it was during the first year of my relationship with Husby.  We danced so much that the strap of my strappy heels broke! We also endured boring ResLife training sessions here.  Ah. Memories, memories.)




But what about the baby?  Don't worry about him.  On Mondays he will stay with his dad, enjoying Man Time of home repairs, adventures to the park, and whatever else Daddy Does That Mommy Doesn't.  Then this week my mom will come to stay with him while our babysitter is away at a camp.  Here is a photo, shamelessly taken from her FB page:
She is a really nice girl, one of my former students.  She got a 99% in my class AND can hold the Statue of Liberty.  Come on, she's totally qualified!


So, I'll be teaching this course for the next seven weeks, and then I'll have a week break, and then I will teach Tuesdays and Thursdays for a similar program housed in the same department.

This part time teaching sure isn't making me wealthy, but it is satisfying my thirst to be a teacher and do meaningful work.  It is also satisfying our need for discretionary income (well, pay off student loan, be able to give gifts, and spend a little extra on goodies).

Note: I really want to write about the Beth Moore conference. I just cannot process it all, still! I need a few hours to myself to prepare a proper post that is coherent and is a great journal reflection for me.   I cannot do this when I have a nap time that needs to be divided between house chores and blah blah non-me time,)



Monday, June 28, 2010

I Did Not Read the Fine Print and So I'm Out of Luck.

I bought what I thought would be an amazing carton of ice cream today.


Monster Cookie.  I saw chunks of M & Ms, cookie dough, and fudge swirls.  Yum!  I eagerly ate a well balanced meal, all the time biding my time until it was DESSERT.

I sunk my spoon into the first bite from the carton and BLECH.  I gagged. I spat. I rinsed.

Peanut Butter Flavored Ice Cream.
Whose bright idea was it to go and ruin a perfectly good flavor with something like PEANUT BUTTER?  I guess it was a crazy ice cream flavor inventor.

So now my husband has two cartons of his very own, one Peanut Butter Panic and the disappointing (peanut butter) Monster Cookie.

If only I would have read all the ingredients as I usually do, compare nutrition labels, and etc!  I guess that means I'll be back to buying all natural vanilla bean ice cream and adding in my own miniature chocolate chips.  Sigh.

  

Imago Dei



Living Proof Live - St. Louis from Rich Kalonick on Vimeo.


A clip from the event.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Imago Dei

Just got back from a Living Proof even featuring the talented and charming Beth Moore!

I will share a few photos and a lot of thoughts on the content of the lessons, which was about the image of God.

I was invited by Chrissy, who found a last minute ticket for me, and we shared many things as we traveled together... stories, gossip, laughs, a double bed, and a commission to bear and wear God's image so that one day we might stand in awe of Christ and be regarded as one of His sweet daughters.

This was a really great experience, and I'd challenge any women who have never been to a Biblical teaching and worship conference to GO! Change your plans and go! Let the Lord lead you and be revealed! It was really just that good.  I am already considering the next conference I can attend.  I hope it is in Hattiesburg with my dear friend, Ann!


Thursday, June 24, 2010

Super Kid! Super Photo!

I took this awesome photo today and did a teensy bit of editing. I didn't have to do much because this little girl is SO STINKING CUTE!



She has such a special place in my heart because I met her mother when we were both pregnant with our firsts.
She is a reminder of the child we might have had and though maybe seeing her should make me sad, it actually doesn't. I feel like my daughter would have been her playmate and would have been every bit as precious.

I am so happy that I have this little gem in my life!




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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Hello Bloggy Friend Sally, Meet Bloggy Friend Jane

I realized that when I talk to some of my friends, I mention another one's blog or reference a photo from my blog.  Its indirect contact, I know, but I feel like some of my blog friends are friends by association.

My friend Ann had a superb introduction to herself on her blog.  So good that I am working on one for myself!  I think her little blurb about herself might help you get to know her, but it doesn't help ME get to know YOU.

Will you write a little introduction post on your blog and then link back to it in your comments?  Or leave a comment of introduction?

That way I can stop referring to ya'll as Bloggy Friend Sally and just Sally, my friend when I talk to others!


 


 So I will write that post and publish it tomorrow.  Why don't you do the same thing? Please? Or perhaps you can just mentally compose your introduction for the comments section of my post tomorrow for those of you who are non bloggers or private bloggers!

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Current Favs

Method cleaning products.  This company rocks.  All the plastics are recycled and recyclable.  The surfactant in the cleaner is plant based, so it is non toxic and sustainable.  It is perfect for things my baby is prone to lick or handle!  I have used the pump laundry detergent in the Fresh Air smell and love it enough to switch to all non-cloth diapering wash loads.  I use the daily shower cleaner and love it. I use the hand soaps in the sweet water scent for all the sinks in the house and LOVE them.  I have a multipurpose spray that is cucumber scent and again, love it. I have the tub and tile cleaning cloths and like them because they are flushable, whereas the Clorox wipes I used to use aren't.  By no means are these things the most simple or cheap or planet friendly out there - but I think its a really good start.  I always intend to use vinegar or bleach solutions as cleaner, but I don't love the scent and frankly, am too lazy to get things in order to do that.


Morning Nap Time. My son's morning naps are like clock work.  This is truly awesome.  He goes down between 9:30 10 and stays down until noon.  I feel like I can finally get things going around our house.

Auctions.  My husband finds great deals at auctions.  He bought a gas grill there with two full tanks for a buck.  I think he feels the same shopping high after an auction as I do anytime I shop.  So its a win/win.

Reading other people's blogs about life.  Reading that other people have struggles, cool vacations, goals and dreams, and etc make me feel less lonely during days when I basically stay in a 5 mile radius of my home and spend time with less than three people who can speak intelligible English.

The Bachelorette. Yes.  Usually I never watch.  But I got sucked in and I enjoy the hour and a half of trash TV!  So many "really and truly"s and "happy ever afters" and "the best thing ever" and "sweetest most beautiful girl"s and "totally genuine"s and all kinds of other exaggerations that make me roll my eyes, but really I enjoy it all.

Little plaid jumpers for my little one's wardrobe.


Jersey knit skirts for my wardrobe, paired with loose tops and sandals.  It is SO HOT here.   I have two from Target (but they seem shorter than the ones pictured online) and one from Old Navy. (update for Ashley!)

And not my current fav... a boil order for our water since Sunday.  A pipe broke and its difficult to remember to use bottled or boiled water for everything.  My son loves drinking bottled water and thinks its a hoot to crackle the plastic bottle, so I guess its okay!

Monday, June 21, 2010

A Photo Event and some Haid Family Research



I took some way awesome photos yesterday. They were awesome because of the subjects and the purpose behind the photo. (Not because of my camera or my eye for photography - because I think that eye might need glasses!)

My father in law has been really excited to take a father/son/grandson photo at a historic home in a nearby town.  The home was one of his ancestor's homes.  Actually, it was his great-great grandfather's home that was constructed in 1910.  This guy was so excited about the house and his name that he emblazoned it on the front stoop.



The 1910 Mr Haid is the first generation of Haids born in America.  His father, the original, was born in Switzerland and traveled by ship via the Atlantic, Gulf, and the Mississippi River to settle in central Missouri during the mid 1860s.  The family still resides on the original farm.



 The family legend has it that this little boy traveled with his parents and grandparents.  The grandfather became very ill and died.  He had a burial at sea.  I believe that his parents didn't live too long, either, but he lived for quite some time.



I don't know much about this 1910 Mr. Haid Junior.  I suppose I haven't asked that much though. I did a quick web search and learned the following information:

Biographical Sketch of Daniel Haid, Jr., Franklin County, Missouri

>From "History of Franklin, Jefferson, Washington, Crawford and 
Gasconade Counties", Biographical Appendix, Goodspeed Publishing 
Company, 1888.

**********************************************************************

Daniel Haid, Jr., dealer in general merchandise, grain, etc., was born
in Gasconade County, Mo., two miles west of Berger in 1859, the son of
Daniel and Teressa (Speckhals) Haid, natives of Switzerland and Germany,
respectively.  When still quite young they came with their parents to
the United States, located in Gasconade County, where they were married,
and where the father of our subject still resides.  He is a thorough-
going well-to-do farmer and general trader.  He is a man of good busi-
ness ability, and one who has the esteem of the entire community.  He
is now living with his second wife, Mrs. Barbara Smidt, nee Zeilmann.
His first wife died in 1872, at the age of thirty-six years.  Daniel
grew to manhood on the farm and secured a fair education in the country
schools.  He was then occupied on the farm, where he remained until 
1883, when he, in company with Albert Labhardt, engaged in the general
merchandise business at Berger.  At the end of one year Mr. Labhardt
withdrew, and since then Mr. Haid has conducted the business alone, 
with unusual success, and having quite a capital invested in his busi-
ness.  He has erected a large elevator, and is quite extensively en-
gaged in the grain trade, and bids fair to soon become one of Franklin
County's leading business men.  He cast his first presidential vote in
1880.  He is a member of the A. O. U. W. and the German Evangelical
Church.



That is a pretty detailed bio.  Sounds like this family used to be rich!  Bummer that they didn't leave any flashy jewels to be passed down to me.  Or crystal stemware.  Or vacation houses in France.  Or wineries.  Or whatever.  I married for love, not money.

A little more digging and I found this:

I know, right? This is on THE INTERNET!  How strange.


I also know that he had two sons and that the home was passed to the son without his namesake.  I think the other brother got the farm land or the business.  I don't know for sure.

I do know that my husband's direct family did not inherit the house and its inhabitants are cousins that I've never met and my husband doesn't think he's ever met. My father in law remembers going there when his aunt and uncle lived there for parties.  


I bet that 1910 Mrs. Haid had some fabulous adventures.  There is a grand ballroom in the home.  Can you imagine ME in a house with a BALLROOM?  What parties I could throw.  Spring galas.  Holiday balls.  And we could have even had a series finale of LOST formal affair. 

 I would, of course, have to have a full staff to clean it all.  And a florist.  A gardener. A pastry chef.

But I would NOT have a nanny for this little laddie.


He could have a Latin tutor or something, but not a nanny.  I enjoy him too much to share with another caregiver!


My son was such a good sport about having his photo taken..  There were dogs and unfamiliar faces for him to wave and smile to.  I think he might grow up to be as photogenic as his father.



And here is a photo of my husband's immediate family.
His father and younger brother are sitting next to him, and I am sitting next to my mother in law. I think its a really good photo, even though it was 97 degrees (for real) and at least 5 of us were sweaty, hungry for lunch, and ready for a nap.


I wouldn't be surprised if this photo makes it into my mother in law's Christmas card.



 I think I might have the most photogenic husband in the world. Seriously, he cannot take a bad picture!  I realize it could be my rose colored glasses, but I doubt it.  He is also a fine sport for posing for pictures and tolerating his photo being made.

 Many people I know don't humor me and feel apprehensive about having their photograph taken.  I think those worries make the photo that much less beautiful because the anxiety and stiffness show.  I think self consciousness screams in photos, louder than in real life.



This is a nice photo too, but perhaps too much light.  I think I may try to photoshop this one to improve the contrast.

These last photos are action shots.  They were taken on burst mode and occurred quicker than a wink.  My little boy is a QUICK crawler these days.  He barreled past me and found a ball to play with.  I like these photos, too.





 These photos were taken on Father's Day and I know it was significant for my father in law.  He feels so proud of his grandson and sons, and he thought it was so neat that the house is 100 this year.  It was somewhat of a hassle to get packed up after early church and travel in the car for three hours to be there for six hours, but I find consolation in the fact that the photos are awesome and my family enjoyed each other's company.











Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Father's Day To My Husband




Today my husband showed some reasons why he deserves the title of Great Dad.
He was patient and peppy to a frequently impatient and fussy son.
He showed unconditional and unilateral and sacrificial love and that made my heart soar.

And PS - Even if he were a kind of crappy dad, at the very least he passed on some mighty attractive genes to his son! This boy will be lucky to have half of his genetic composition to be as photogenic as his father!



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Friday, June 18, 2010

Reality TV and a Fountain Soda Were Therapeutic Today.


This afternoon was bonkers.

These photos were taken on Monday at Husby's softball game.  DHH is 46 weeks old.

My son wanted one on one attention, which included, but was not limited to, songs with hand motions, dancing, swimming in the bath tub, playing outdoors in the 92 degree heat, and wrestle/cuddle time.
I wanted to complete my housework chores so that I could have Saturday free to do anything I wanted, including mess up the house again.

Only one of us got our wish. 
It was him.

I tried putting him in the play yard and turning on his favorite tunes to dance to while I swept.  I thought he could eat Cheerios and groove.  He couldn't.  I resorted to turning on the TV (The American Academy of Pediatrics says no TV until two, and I try to do this except for 5:30 PM news and Wheel of Fortune and the first few minutes of DWTS or Bachelorette).  The TV did not interest him.  The only thing that interested him was the broom I was using to collect the dried up bits of grass, isopods, and baby foods from the floor.  He was so fascinated with the fibers of the broom that he threw a fit when I took it away from him to use it.  


I put him in his crib and cleaned half of the kitchen while he howled and cajoled and moaned in his nursery.  I did not get to mopping, reloading the dishwasher, gathering the clothes from the line (or dryer), or the disaster area that was the living room. The child could not be more persistent!  

My nerves were shot and so I called my husband.  He was out and about in town and running errands AFTER WORK AND WOULD NOT BE HOME UNTIL NEARLY SIX PM.  I about lost it!  I needed him home, ASAP, and with a fountain soda from QT (half and half diet/reg Mt Dew).


I know its fine to let children be out of sight and know they are just fussy and can play independently.  I know that.  I couldn't stand his volume though, so after he'd howled in his room for as long as my headache could tolerate, I went in to get him.

His tears immediately dried and he said his own dialect of "Up!".  I picked him up and he rested his head on my shoulder, which is his signal for a hug.  We hugged for awhile and I read several stories to him.  The more and more wiggly he grew, the more and more I peered out of the window looking for my husband's aging S10 to pull into the driveway.


When he arrived, he assumed baby duty so I could have a few moments' peace to drink my Dew and collect my thoughts.  This was a luxury!  I feel pity for single parents who do not get the opportunity for solitude at least once in the midst of a tough day. 

Our trio spent time together eating leftover stuffed green peppers for dinner (The baby ate the red rice! Table food! Hurray!), getting to know our new neighbor, pulling weeds sprouting through the patio blocks, sitting on the porch, and walking around our neighborhood.  It was good.


The reality TV that was on at 8 PM was nearly as good.  Well, it was BAD in a good way!  I love watching Wife Swap because of how horrible it is.  The families are extreme.  They cannot do moderation.  They are selected to clash.  They are easy fodder for my husband's keen wit and shrewd sense of sarcasm.  Its easy to pass judgments on these wacky people.  Its even easier for us to solve their problems (Basically, think moderation, people! And be nice to your spouse and tell your kids you love them. That's it Luckily, these people can't figure out these problems, so we have a show to watch each week.)

So....Family Time + Reality TV + MtDew - Stress = Pretty Good Night.


Got any other unlikely combos to combat stress? I would love to hear!


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